There is currently a Big & Small sale going on somewhere in Pasong Tamo extension. I wanted to go there but decided on skipping it to save myself money.
But then I found out that it's Expo Kid II at Rockwell too this Saturday!!! And since both are in the same general area, I am now itching to go!
Yikes.
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Was up early this morning looking at maternity con nursing wear again. So much for being prudent with money, haha.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Redirection Problems
I have vowed to bond extra with Yakee for our last month without Yamee. I have even written it on our white board so I'd be reminded every day. And honest to God, I am really trying.
However, he is really trying my patience all the time, no matter how nicely I ask or explain or say. And I really don't have any patience, what with dealing with all the discomforts of the last stages of pregnancy and birthday blues. Not to mention, my apprehensions for my coming delivery and this new addition.
I guess, we are both stressed.
It just sucks that I've lost my temper every day with my son. And the solution is actually a simple concept: redirection. I fail to offer something else for him to do, which he'd like or be occupied with. I fail to distract him with something else. And kids only really want attention when they misbehave or refuse to listen but when I just say "NO" or "STOP" then they still don't get the attention they want.
God help me, I want our last month together to be as nice as possible because it would really break my heart if he'd feel I abandoned him when Yamee arrives and occupies all my time and energy.
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This morning he kept singing "Happy birthday Mommy" to me while holding my hand. And he's taken to calling me Mommy Princess or Princess Mommy. He's the prince, of course.
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added in the afternoon:
This could very well be one, if not the, worst Mommy moment of my life yet. My hands are stinging from all the spanking I did, even if I didn't really spank my son from one to sawa. Sigh. I like to blame the terrible threes and pregnancy hormones for days like this when I struggle so, but generally I feel and believe that I'm just not cut out to be a Mom.
Really, really, really bad day. I think I am just reinforcing all the negative behavior that so pisses me off.
However, he is really trying my patience all the time, no matter how nicely I ask or explain or say. And I really don't have any patience, what with dealing with all the discomforts of the last stages of pregnancy and birthday blues. Not to mention, my apprehensions for my coming delivery and this new addition.
I guess, we are both stressed.
It just sucks that I've lost my temper every day with my son. And the solution is actually a simple concept: redirection. I fail to offer something else for him to do, which he'd like or be occupied with. I fail to distract him with something else. And kids only really want attention when they misbehave or refuse to listen but when I just say "NO" or "STOP" then they still don't get the attention they want.
God help me, I want our last month together to be as nice as possible because it would really break my heart if he'd feel I abandoned him when Yamee arrives and occupies all my time and energy.
*~*
This morning he kept singing "Happy birthday Mommy" to me while holding my hand. And he's taken to calling me Mommy Princess or Princess Mommy. He's the prince, of course.
*~*
added in the afternoon:
This could very well be one, if not the, worst Mommy moment of my life yet. My hands are stinging from all the spanking I did, even if I didn't really spank my son from one to sawa. Sigh. I like to blame the terrible threes and pregnancy hormones for days like this when I struggle so, but generally I feel and believe that I'm just not cut out to be a Mom.
Really, really, really bad day. I think I am just reinforcing all the negative behavior that so pisses me off.
Balancing Parenting and the Pursuit of Online Degrees
The gift of parenting comes in all shapes and sizes wrapped with all widths of ribbon. There are more books written about the art of parenting than anything else. And yet, there is no magic formula that answers all the questions parents have when they start their families. Luckily, pursuing a college education while parenting does not necessarily require some exotic skill set.
Are you a mom trying to balance family, husband, and the desire to get an education? It's not easy but neither is changing a poopy diaper at 2 AM. And the fact of the matter is, it is never easy to work your way through university level classes. Great online degrees are attainable for the mom or the dad who never made it through college before life happened. Online college classes are much more flexible than standard higher education institutions where you are required to be in class for face time with the professor. So mom, you have your answer, yes, you can be a mom and fulfill your desire for a college education.
In the evening when your children need help with their homework, you can have your books open as well. It might even help to get them inspired to get their homework done before you do. There are all kinds of ways to parent effectively so go ahead and whip out the books as you’re studying your way through college.
Online colleges are generally chosen by the degree that you want to receive. So for example, if you want to get a degree in the nursing field, you would start your search with “nursing degree online.” University of Phoenix came up as offering a degreed program to get either a bachelor’s degree or a master’s degree in nursing.
There are many options of colleges offering online degrees so you can find the perfect school for you.
Are you a mom trying to balance family, husband, and the desire to get an education? It's not easy but neither is changing a poopy diaper at 2 AM. And the fact of the matter is, it is never easy to work your way through university level classes. Great online degrees are attainable for the mom or the dad who never made it through college before life happened. Online college classes are much more flexible than standard higher education institutions where you are required to be in class for face time with the professor. So mom, you have your answer, yes, you can be a mom and fulfill your desire for a college education.
In the evening when your children need help with their homework, you can have your books open as well. It might even help to get them inspired to get their homework done before you do. There are all kinds of ways to parent effectively so go ahead and whip out the books as you’re studying your way through college.
Online colleges are generally chosen by the degree that you want to receive. So for example, if you want to get a degree in the nursing field, you would start your search with “nursing degree online.” University of Phoenix came up as offering a degreed program to get either a bachelor’s degree or a master’s degree in nursing.
There are many options of colleges offering online degrees so you can find the perfect school for you.
Help Your Child Swim Safely
If you check online for swimming safety tips, most articles start with scary statistics that will tell you how children drown easily in under two feet of water, and how many children drown in a day and how many get treated in the ER everyday. Whether it is one child or hundred children who die every day due to drowning, numbers don’t matter. What matters is that every parent should know how to keep children safe in water and also let them enjoy their experience.
Many think that if a child knows how to swim she will be safe. Hardly! It is always better to let children swim or play in water under adult supervision. It's also better to remove children from the water before attending to distractions like phone calls or opening the door for someone. Lifejackets and floaters, although important, can never substitute for your presence. If children do not know how to swim, it is better not to let them enter the water. Teach them at least basic floating techniques before letting them enter the pool.
If you have a pool in your backyard, it is a good idea to build a fence around it. In fact, in most places, it is a requirement to build a fence according to measurements set by your local municipality. Install a kid-safety gate, which can be opened only by adults, with clear signs of “pool closed” when not in use. If you have pool covers, close them fully when you don’t want to use the pool and open the covers fully when using the pool. Even though a photo of a pool cover may boast of an elephant standing on it, discourage your children from playing on the pool cover. Safety pool supplies like floaters and life saving equipment should be kept handy near the pool, and all parents will benefit by knowing CPR.
Many think that if a child knows how to swim she will be safe. Hardly! It is always better to let children swim or play in water under adult supervision. It's also better to remove children from the water before attending to distractions like phone calls or opening the door for someone. Lifejackets and floaters, although important, can never substitute for your presence. If children do not know how to swim, it is better not to let them enter the water. Teach them at least basic floating techniques before letting them enter the pool.
If you have a pool in your backyard, it is a good idea to build a fence around it. In fact, in most places, it is a requirement to build a fence according to measurements set by your local municipality. Install a kid-safety gate, which can be opened only by adults, with clear signs of “pool closed” when not in use. If you have pool covers, close them fully when you don’t want to use the pool and open the covers fully when using the pool. Even though a photo of a pool cover may boast of an elephant standing on it, discourage your children from playing on the pool cover. Safety pool supplies like floaters and life saving equipment should be kept handy near the pool, and all parents will benefit by knowing CPR.
What You Can do When Money is Tight
If you're facing a financial hardship and money is tight, a short-term loan may be a possibility for you. Many people live from paycheck to paycheck, and if the furnace breaks or the cat gets sick before payday, they may be in a bind. Whether you just need a few extra dollars or a few hundred, a payday loan can be an option to get you to that next paycheck. With this type of loan, you pay it back on your next payday. There are no fees or charges until then.
Not only can payday loans help you with financial difficulties, they are very easy to apply for and to obtain. They do not require credit checks, and often, the only requirements are to be over the age of 18, have a steady job, and have your paycheck directly deposited into a checking or savings account.
These loans are also easy to pay back. After your employer directly deposits your check into your account, the lender will withdraw the money. Many lenders give an option to pay back the entire loan amount, with interest and fees at that time, or to pay back just the interest and extend the loan. If an individual extends the loan, the next subsequent payday is the due date for the loan.
Finally, finding a short-term loan in today's economy is quite easy. Searching the web for payday loan lenders will assist you in finding a solution to your emergency. Keep in mind these lenders help people. You don't need to feel embarrassed about applying for a loan during difficult financial times. If money is tight, you should find a lender and apply to get the money you need today.
Not only can payday loans help you with financial difficulties, they are very easy to apply for and to obtain. They do not require credit checks, and often, the only requirements are to be over the age of 18, have a steady job, and have your paycheck directly deposited into a checking or savings account.
These loans are also easy to pay back. After your employer directly deposits your check into your account, the lender will withdraw the money. Many lenders give an option to pay back the entire loan amount, with interest and fees at that time, or to pay back just the interest and extend the loan. If an individual extends the loan, the next subsequent payday is the due date for the loan.
Finally, finding a short-term loan in today's economy is quite easy. Searching the web for payday loan lenders will assist you in finding a solution to your emergency. Keep in mind these lenders help people. You don't need to feel embarrassed about applying for a loan during difficult financial times. If money is tight, you should find a lender and apply to get the money you need today.
Intentions of Parenting
As you all know, I am a mother by intention. I have had to work to become a mom, and I value every day more than I ever dreamed possible because of my choice. I wouldn't give up what my life has become for anything. But just becoming a parent is nowhere near the end of intentions in life. As a matter of fact, intentional living is the kind of thing you have to do all of the time. Every choice opens up a new road to travel down. And the road is more like a stream that will carry you in a slow meander.
If you want to move quickly, you will have to take positive steps toward where you want to be. I'm not trying to wax poetic or anything, just saying how I feel. I want to have a safe, happy, healthy life where I watch my son grow to be a good man. I may have other children one day, depending on what I feel is right. But for now, this is a pretty good all-encompassing goal to live constructively working toward. I really can't see myself doing anything more noble than being the best I can be, and showing my son the best that life has to offer, and how to do right in the world.
This is why I make the choice to get great home and car insurance. This is why I make sure to keep him away from any sort of harm I can protect him from. This is why I fully intend to show him everything I can, and teach him everything I had to learn through the harsh teacher of experience. I chose to be a mother because I believe that I have a lot to give to my child. And as he gets older and can understand things, I will give even more.
If you want to move quickly, you will have to take positive steps toward where you want to be. I'm not trying to wax poetic or anything, just saying how I feel. I want to have a safe, happy, healthy life where I watch my son grow to be a good man. I may have other children one day, depending on what I feel is right. But for now, this is a pretty good all-encompassing goal to live constructively working toward. I really can't see myself doing anything more noble than being the best I can be, and showing my son the best that life has to offer, and how to do right in the world.
This is why I make the choice to get great home and car insurance. This is why I make sure to keep him away from any sort of harm I can protect him from. This is why I fully intend to show him everything I can, and teach him everything I had to learn through the harsh teacher of experience. I chose to be a mother because I believe that I have a lot to give to my child. And as he gets older and can understand things, I will give even more.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Liking the Names
I don't much care about OctoMom really but having found out the names of her kids was fun. I like Arabic, Hebrew, Biblical, Greek sounding names and her kids are named thus:
i don't care much for OctoMom but I like her kids' names... am into Arabic, Hebrew, Greek, Biblical names nga kasi eh :D
Elijah Makai Solomon
Amerah Yasmeen
Joshua Jacob
Aidan
Calyssa Arielle
Caleb Kai
The Octuplets:
Noah Angel
Jonah Angel
Jeremiah Angel
Josiah Angel
Isaiah Angel
MaLiah Angel
Makai Angel
NaRiah Angel
Well, okay, she must really like the name MAKAI (Hebrew for Michael, "He who resembles God") for having used it twice, aside from also using Kai as a second name for Caleb. Then again, I also like Kai.
And now, am attempting to pretend I am her and coming up with 14 names, hehe.
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i don't care much for OctoMom but I like her kids' names... am into Arabic, Hebrew, Greek, Biblical names nga kasi eh :D
Elijah Makai Solomon
Amerah Yasmeen
Joshua Jacob
Aidan
Calyssa Arielle
Caleb Kai
The Octuplets:
Noah Angel
Jonah Angel
Jeremiah Angel
Josiah Angel
Isaiah Angel
MaLiah Angel
Makai Angel
NaRiah Angel
Well, okay, she must really like the name MAKAI (Hebrew for Michael, "He who resembles God") for having used it twice, aside from also using Kai as a second name for Caleb. Then again, I also like Kai.
And now, am attempting to pretend I am her and coming up with 14 names, hehe.
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