...we might be opting to skip a pool party at a family friend's home. It would have been fun to have my son play in the sun and just lounge in the verandah (for they have umbrellas and other patio furniture covers anyway) but cold viruses are sure to spread faster in the pool, and some of the guests are sure to be school-age kids. I am sorry about all my friends' kids getting sick (based on their Tweets and Plurks) and very thankful that Yakee has so far proved resilient... so I really do not want to invite germs into our lives right now.
Hubs reminded me we shouldn't shelter Yakee so much and I told him we're not.It's enough we're taking him to play areas and baby fairs right now, or at the mall. But a pool party just doesn't seem to be a good idea. And with hospitals full of sick kids down with the flu, I really don't want to be rushing to the ER with our son, where I can also catch something.
Friday, August 27, 2010
Monday, August 23, 2010
Jennifer Garner Teaching Her Girls Healthy Habits
Jennifer Garner is teaching her daughters healthy habits by letting them watch her work out, and feeding them healthy food.
And because it's Jennifer Garner, I believe her. So when she says she's cooking for her family, I really do believe her. And the pictures i've seen of her all look normal, non-pretentious and healthy. Her kids aren't dolled up like Suri Cruise is, or all cooled up like Brangelina's kids.
So I really hope Ben Affleck is being a good hubby and father 'coz Jennifer seems to really be a great, hands-on Mom.
And because it's Jennifer Garner, I believe her. So when she says she's cooking for her family, I really do believe her. And the pictures i've seen of her all look normal, non-pretentious and healthy. Her kids aren't dolled up like Suri Cruise is, or all cooled up like Brangelina's kids.
So I really hope Ben Affleck is being a good hubby and father 'coz Jennifer seems to really be a great, hands-on Mom.
Cordlife Philippines
When my son was born in 2007, the closest cord banking facility was still in Singapore. Cord blood would be collected here and stored in their facility there. But now, I was happy to hear that there is already a Cordlife Philippines with a storage facility somewhere in Laguna.
We still don't really have the budget for their yearly fees but cord blood banking is something I really find a good investment. It's not like going over one insurance quote after another where you compare premiums to interests and other terms, it's basically just paying for that option to have stem cells save your child, his sibling or you someday. I am simply amazed that now, cerebral palsy in children is getting 'cured' or 'reversed' and I couldn't help but wonder if it could do the same for other brain-related issues. I was even thinking out loud last night that if our friends had the money, maybe they could collect their second-born's stem cells and have it infused in Anya, who has several neurological issues. I'm just not sure if the 75% possibility of a match is enough to benefit Anya, or if it could harm Anya. But by golly, the leaps and bounds we're making in medical breakthroughs!
We still don't really have the budget for their yearly fees but cord blood banking is something I really find a good investment. It's not like going over one insurance quote after another where you compare premiums to interests and other terms, it's basically just paying for that option to have stem cells save your child, his sibling or you someday. I am simply amazed that now, cerebral palsy in children is getting 'cured' or 'reversed' and I couldn't help but wonder if it could do the same for other brain-related issues. I was even thinking out loud last night that if our friends had the money, maybe they could collect their second-born's stem cells and have it infused in Anya, who has several neurological issues. I'm just not sure if the 75% possibility of a match is enough to benefit Anya, or if it could harm Anya. But by golly, the leaps and bounds we're making in medical breakthroughs!
Friday, August 20, 2010
Scheduled CS It Is
So yes, goodbye to anything remotely resembling Branson vacations for us because we're looking at around P130k of hospital and doctor bills come November.
Reaching this decision wasn't easy. I have cried many tears over it, prayed over it, hoped for the best and second-guessed my motivations. But ultimately, the two reasons why I would go for a VBAC (avoiding surgery and cheaper delivery bills) don't count so much when pitted against all the other conditions and risks.
So now, I rest easy knowing when i'd be giving birth (provided no complications arise, or premature labor happens).
And well, I do need to rest because morning sickness is back... I am back to waking up at wee hours of the morning to eat, back to being unable to sleep, back to retching all the time over the littlest thing. I think my mood is bad for so many days because my body knows it's going to be stressed this way again.
Hay, Yamee. I do love you and your brother so much... but I really wish both of you gave me easier pregnancies. I swear, i'd still appreciate and love you as much without all these drama.
Reaching this decision wasn't easy. I have cried many tears over it, prayed over it, hoped for the best and second-guessed my motivations. But ultimately, the two reasons why I would go for a VBAC (avoiding surgery and cheaper delivery bills) don't count so much when pitted against all the other conditions and risks.
So now, I rest easy knowing when i'd be giving birth (provided no complications arise, or premature labor happens).
And well, I do need to rest because morning sickness is back... I am back to waking up at wee hours of the morning to eat, back to being unable to sleep, back to retching all the time over the littlest thing. I think my mood is bad for so many days because my body knows it's going to be stressed this way again.
Hay, Yamee. I do love you and your brother so much... but I really wish both of you gave me easier pregnancies. I swear, i'd still appreciate and love you as much without all these drama.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Breastfeeding Thoughts and Issues
A friend floated a question in her FB if it's just a matter of semantics, or if breastfeeding is really different from giving expressed breast milk.
The short answer is YES and NO, really.
YES... they're different. Breastfeeding supposedly offers nourishment needed at that exact moment, in perfect quantity and composition. Plus, it offers touch therapy, helps regulate baby's heartbeat as it synchronizes with her Mom's and lends itself to attachment parenting. And you lose the antibodies in the breast milk when you freeze it.
YES... because it's generally a dance only a mother and child can do, a very intimate experience.
NO... because expressing breast milk requires time and energy, and therefore sacrifice. It's how working Moms bond with their child during the day, by doing the pumping work in the middle of deadlines and demanding bosses.
Some mothers breastfeed but do not do so lovingly.
Some mothers express milk but do not do so lovingly.
Some malnourished kids, sick kids, kids with special conditions have benefitted from wet nursing and breastmilk donations.
Hands down, breast milk is superior to formula. But I think breastfeeding cannot be limited to just direct feeding since its magic really stems from the sacrifice it rquires, from the giving of oneself it requires.
The short answer is YES and NO, really.
YES... they're different. Breastfeeding supposedly offers nourishment needed at that exact moment, in perfect quantity and composition. Plus, it offers touch therapy, helps regulate baby's heartbeat as it synchronizes with her Mom's and lends itself to attachment parenting. And you lose the antibodies in the breast milk when you freeze it.
YES... because it's generally a dance only a mother and child can do, a very intimate experience.
NO... because expressing breast milk requires time and energy, and therefore sacrifice. It's how working Moms bond with their child during the day, by doing the pumping work in the middle of deadlines and demanding bosses.
Some mothers breastfeed but do not do so lovingly.
Some mothers express milk but do not do so lovingly.
Some malnourished kids, sick kids, kids with special conditions have benefitted from wet nursing and breastmilk donations.
Hands down, breast milk is superior to formula. But I think breastfeeding cannot be limited to just direct feeding since its magic really stems from the sacrifice it rquires, from the giving of oneself it requires.
Saturday, August 14, 2010
No Cable TV in Future
Hubby was proposing that we look into a cable plan for better reception than the one we're enjoying, but he then realized that it could wait till we've found our own place.
Well, I blasted his plans by saying that i'd really like to minimize television time for our kids and do not want to get cable next year, wherever we may live. I did tell him he can still go read tv reviews for a new purchase of an lcd tv, should he still want one, since our kids can still watch videos (educational). Just no cable TV anymore that's so handy and regular that Mommy lets it babysit.
I can still change my mind, I know. But really, since we can pretty much download everything and Google everything, we don't NEED a TV anymore.
Well, I blasted his plans by saying that i'd really like to minimize television time for our kids and do not want to get cable next year, wherever we may live. I did tell him he can still go read tv reviews for a new purchase of an lcd tv, should he still want one, since our kids can still watch videos (educational). Just no cable TV anymore that's so handy and regular that Mommy lets it babysit.
I can still change my mind, I know. But really, since we can pretty much download everything and Google everything, we don't NEED a TV anymore.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Artistic Momma
Hubs found me learning something from Photoshop. I was actually trying to learn to create porcelain masks and it took me the better part of two hours to even come up with a nice layout. My right hand was absolutely tired from all that editing I had to do! Some nights, hubs would wake to see me making sense of digiscrapping kits in my laptop, organizing them and deleting stuff I won't ever use. He's even asked me if we need a new desktop anymore or should we invest in custom usb drives or another hard disk already. I told him we just need a new CD burner but that I am resigned to letting the desktop go soon. I sincerely doubt our kids would be learning computing with desktops anyway.
I just really hope I can finally make some leaps and bounds in Photoshop since it's been over 5 years already since I first started learning it. I really should know more about it now.
I just really hope I can finally make some leaps and bounds in Photoshop since it's been over 5 years already since I first started learning it. I really should know more about it now.
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